Today is the Day -- and every Day Hereafter

The massacre in Connecticut was Friday.  On Sunday, we held Grace's 6th birthday party (early, since the holidays are so busy).  I will post pics from that but suffice it to say, every parent in the room was drinking in the sight of their happy, lively children.  I hope that by the time G is old enough to read this blog without assistance, Congress will have enacted the strongest gun and ammo control this country has ever seen.

Now, to lighten the moment, allow me to post my favorite picture of this year, taken this fall at the zoo by my mother (nice job, mom!).  Grace is sitting on a large, bronze tortoise on a gorgeous, sunny day in November. Okay, maybe a few more....

 

  

 

Gotcha #5 and Kindergarten

WHY DO I STILL HAVE A CRAPPY CAMERA??? WHY, WHY???? Maybe Santa will bring me a grown-up camera for Christmas, or sometime before our baby turns 21. Did I mention she had monster truck tattoos on her arm today? Not that you could tell by the resolution of this cereal-box prize of a camera.

5 Years of Grace Xue and a New Beginning

Today marked the anniversary of our introduction to Grace in Hunan, China. She was such a tiny, delicate little person with an intense gaze and fully formed character. Now, still petite, she packs a wallop physically and inter-personally, and we are so very happy she is who she is! Yesterday, G and I capped a long, sweet and fiery summer (both the weather and her will) with a trip to the gym -- rained out before we could hit the pool, we kicked a soccer ball around a racquetball court and bemoaned our late arrival -- the rock wall was closed. I suggested we cross the street to see if "Brave" was at the movie theater. It wasn't playing any longer, so we saw "The Odd Life of Timothy Green." Spoiler alert -- they adopt a Chinese girl about Grace's age. Why hadn't I brought TISSUES??? Or read a review? Despite this particularly heart-string-tugging twist, which left me bawling and Grace staring at me, we both enjoyed the movie. She pronounced it better than Brave would have been. I think she was saying so to protect me because she knew that the heroine in Brave wrestles a bear and she was thinking I would not want to watch that (I don't like human on animal violence on TV...although I think I could've handled the flick...). On the way home, we saw a massive, full-color rainbow over a wet soybean field. She wanted me to chase down the pot of gold, not knowing I already had and it was strapped in a Britax clutching "Baby B" (Beth, thanks for that receiving blanket -- it's still receiving lots of love from Grace). She also tried on, for the last time, her outfit in which we received Grace in 2007. The shorts were fine (pants then, I recalled) but the "Ethnic Baby" inscribed tank was quite snug. Just as well - I am happy to report she has grown more than an inch since May and half of that in the last month. The next morning, Grace awoke excited but scared -- Gotcha Day had arrived but equally as important in the annals of Grace's life, today was the first day of Kindergarten! I fed her anxious tummy some scrambled eggs and cheddar cheese (isn't that what we all crave when we are nervous? No? Well, I do!) and we bustled into the car for the quick trip to the bus stop (tomorrow we will walk). She had brushed her hair, put on her shoes, stuffed her backpack and was ready to go. First one at the stop, she cheerfully greeted each kid as they arrived (she knew only a few of them but was happy to host). She also chased cats, looked for bugs, compared backpacks, dodged the paparazzi and the mamarazzi, and generally behaved like no one who professed to be scared. I sought and got a big, strong hug before the bus was in sight and positioned myself to film the boarding. Too bad I wasn't using ESPN's fast-action videography equipment -- she shot out ahead of the pack and raced up the steps without even looking back. Later, she told us she had waved from her seat but it was hard to tell through the tinted windows. No, I didn't cry -- all used up in Timothy Green and anyway, this was a day for celebration! After school we got the full debrief -- she made a new best friend (her words, delivered with much enthusiasm), "Kayla," and learned many rules. They went to gym class, music, recess, and so forth. She had time to eat lunch but no one responded to her raised hand to help open her water bottle (oh, bad mommy -- need to change the vessel tomorrow). She needed only one reminder (uh oh, already!) to listen to the teacher (she was deeply engaged in making that new BFF). Her homeroom teacher noticed her special anniversary on our family info sheet and gave her the privilege of taking home the summary of the day's activities (teach is also an adoptive parent and familiar with Gotcha Day). Grace shared with me the fact that they mentioned God in the Pledge of Allegiance, so we discussed some concepts of religious freedom. We also talked about her likes/dislikes as far as lunch and snack options (tuna cups and yogurt with cinnamon is out, plums, apples and dried seaweed are in). Then we let her choose the Chinese restaurant, fill her tea cup with packets of sugar and generally revel in her big day. One of our fortune cookies had the word for "wife," which is pronounced a lot like "cheese." Enjoy the pics, finally!

Still Kicking!

Okay, I am a bad mom -- I haven't touched this blog in nearly a year.  My main problem is not trusting my computer enough anymore to download pics and then upload them here.  Need to get over that this year, as once in a while one of you, our dear friends and family, actually check in to see what we are doing.  I am not a Facebook person, as you know, so this will have to suffice. 

Let's have some quick stats --
G is 5 and still in preschool, Kindergarten in the fall.  She weighs about 2-3 lbs more than last year at this time.  She is active and happy.  She is still swimming and playing piano.  Looking into horseback lessons this summer and maybe Mandarin after a visit from her special Auntie and Uncle (Donna and Al).  We had a great visit with them last year in the U.K.  Photos attached. 

Still isn't really pronouncing her "r's" too well but I am not concerned.  Still loves animals deeply and wants to grow up to save them.  Tonight, she brushed her teeth wearing her Veterinarian costume.  Could read "Animal Hospital" on the back of her uniform (!).  Came to Take Your Child to Work Day and charmed the pants off everyone.  Loved the pedometer we bought -- walked over 6000 steps in about an hour...(really?  really?) at the park today.  Beat me in Memory (but just barely) before bed.   

Here are some pics from last year (ack!): 


More to come!

Climbing Tintagel (King Arthur's castle) in Cornwall

Grinning at a train station outside London

Gotcha Day 2011

Mulan, Halloween 2011

Tending to the Jack O'Lantern, 2011

Snack break on hike to daddy's bridge site

Visiting the bridge site with Daddy

Another milestone: Swimming

Forgot to mention that Grace swam her first few strokes without assistance at lessons on May 28 and again in the pool with me on the 30th.  So exciting!  She started lessons in December and is getting very confident at floating, putting her head under water and jumping into the water (at someone).  Pics to come.  As of now, she is 32 lbs, and easily sees the tops of all counters and can turn on all light switches. She also can buckle her own child safety seat, clip on her bike helmet and write her first and middle names.  Guess she'll be wanting the car keys next....

Grace, Mary, and Old Mac

Grace had her first piano recital today.  She played "Mary's Lamb" and "Old MacDonald."  I lost the cable that will allow me to sync the video and pics from our camcorder to the computer and upload them here, but I hope to find it or buy one this summer before our big international trip.  Anyway, she has only been nervous in the last two days, but has willingly given preview performances to anyone she can pull over to our piano.  We got dressed up today, complete with a special gift of painted toe and fingernails (purple) and McD's nuggets (we were running late).  She wore a chinese dress (fuschia, with colorful butterflies) from Alan and Donna, and white tights and red patent shoes (her fave, from Maya M.) and her REAL grown up pearl necklace from China that she will get to keep when she is 16. We clipped a little white flower barrette in her hair.   She fell asleep five minutes before we arrived at the recital hall (nothing fancy, finished warehouse space that doubles as a music store) where she woke up and readied herself.  The video is shot from behind; wish I could see her expression as she went through the following steps:  Walked to the bench, slid up onto the bench.  Sat for an eternity while people whispered "She SO SMALL!" until her teacher realized the bench was too far away for Grace to reach the keys.   After a quick scoot forward, Grace placed her hands on the keys and...sat...and...finally...played!  Flawlessly!  Methodically, with excellent pressure and timing, and not a note out of place.  It was magical.  Everyone was so polite and quiet and patient and when it was all over, she gave a hearty bow to the audience.  (I was so proud and happy, of course I cried!)  Later, after all the other kids finished and everyone was eating and drinking refreshments, she joined the crowd of kids at the piano and squeezed in to play another song, a practice piece, that we hadn't realized she knew from memory.  It was great to see her enjoying the piano and her new skills.   Puts all that drama from practice behind us...at least until tomorrow.
Thanks to Miss Lorna, her wonderful teacher, and all of G's fans who have cheered her on since she started in February.  It bears noting that she has often remarked through the sturm and drang of practice, head in her hands, elbows on the keys, "I wish I'd never said I want to learn piano!"  Well, today, we are all glad she did.  Good work, Gracie!

Will also post photo of the program, in which she is the first student to play, as well as her medal (engraved with her name) from Lorna.  No shots of her black nose, which she gave herself by rubbing the program over it a few minutes before the performance.  Cleaned that up quickly.   

Webcam

Don't know how to use it, I admit.  Well, I do know how to point it at me and Grace and snap a pic.  See?

Headed to Four

Just a quick note to let you know all is well with Gracie Xue.  She turns four very soon and we are planning great things for this month.  This weekend, she attended her second musical of the fall (and a third one is teed up for next week).  She is a great theater-goer, and has the etiquette down pat.   She also had her first swimming lesson which went -- well, swimmingly!

I am taking a few days off before Christmas and will use some of that time to update her photos and current interests.  It's been a rough year for technology at our house, and the laptop we currently have is finicky and difficult to use so please bear with me.  I hope next year is one filled with reliable hard drives and no little software goblins.  Speaking of goblins, Grace went as a ghost this year for Halloween. Don't think daddy got any pictures and mommy was out of town but we did get a few at her preschool parade.  Hope to post updates soon -- no major changes (although she is over 30 lbs and 36 inches now) but still as beautiful as ever.  Happy Holidays, everyone!

Gotcha Day 2010 Campout!

For our third Gotcha Day Anniversary, we had a cookout on the deck and then Grace and I slept in a tent on the deck.  We were joined in the morning by one of our dogs.  

Lemonade for Sale!

Grace's first foray into commerce.  Although the advertised price was 25 cents, if asked she would reply "Five Dollars!"  She loved counting her money.